Progress!
So after giving up on nVidia, I bought a used ATI card (Radeon HD 7850), started over with the install of Ubuntu 14.04 LTS and tried out OpenCL. The usual rules apply. Install 14.04, update it fully, use the built-in proprietary AMD drivers built in (and this is the key, the drivers are already there in 14.04, a huge plus) called "fglrx" and leave them alone (seriously, don't try to upgrade them, they work fine out of the box.) Install OpenCL ffrom here https://wiki.tiker.net/OpenCLHowTo It's not as intimidating as it looks, mostly it's a matter of carefully following instructions. Install will take a bit of time, don't panic. Once that's done, then you can install Char-RNN, following each step, skipping the CUDA instructions and going for OpenCL ones. During install, especially the Torch part, you'll see a lot of dependency errors, don't sweat it, they are non-fatal. Once *that* is done (whew!) then the system is ready to go.